Our Voice Blog
Announcing The My Life My Choice Prevention Solution Fellowship
We are thrilled to announce the My Life My Choice Prevention Solution Fellowship, a brand new opportunity for congregate care programs across the country to receive free training, consultation, and partnership in implementing our groundbreaking Prevention Solution Model.
State of My Life My Choice: Strength and Resilience in Challenging Times
Listen to our most recent State of My Life My Choice: Strength and Resilience in Challenging Times briefing that was recorded live via Zoom. Lisa and Audrey discuss how the COVID-19 crisis is impacting vulnerable youth, the innovative response of our team, and how our community can help.
Online Learning: Utilizing Technology to Reduce the Risk of Exploitation in Congregate Care Settings
In the midst of the current COVID-19 crisis, so many of us are looking for new and innovative ways to serve clients and learn best practices for meeting needs in changing and challenging times. The launch of our new online course has come at a time when people are relying on technology for both learning and connecting—two of the central themes of our six-week Advanced Residential Institute on Serving Trafficked and High-Risk Adolescent Girls.
My Life My Choice COVID-19 Response
At My Life My Choice, we, like I’m sure all of you, have been wrestling with our response to the current public health crisis caused by Covid-19 (Coronavirus). We are working to balance the safety of our staff, the needs of our mentees, and the general public good.
From Awareness to Understanding and Action
It’s the end of January which means Human Trafficking Awareness Month is coming to an end. Over the past 30 days or so there was an uptick in events, discussions, and informative memes relating to human trafficking. As the leader of an anti-trafficking organization, I should relish this time. It should feel like an incredible opportunity. Instead, after ten Januaries dedicated to awareness, it feels like a cop out.
Leadership Corps Launches in Fall River: Young Survivors Effecting Change
Last year, 38% of the youth served in our Mentoring Program identified as part of the LGBTQIA+ community. LGBTQIA+ are at increased risk for CSEC - not because of their identities, but because of the many intersecting and overlapping obstacles, including increased risk of being rejected by their families, leaving then without shelter, basic resources, and/or crucial social support.
Become Part of the Solution: A Call to Action for Men
As a prosecutor working on cases of commercial sexual exploitation, I saw the darkest parts of humanity on a daily basis, but My Life My Choice presented a bright spot in that world—helping to restore those traumatized by this horrific industry and empowering survivors.
Why I Work at My Life My Choice
“Each one, teach one.” That’s what I say when people ask me why I work at My Life My Choice. It means to share what you learn so that we can all rise up together.
Our Perspective: The Case for the Equality Model
At My Life My Choice, we believe policy change is urgently needed in order to protect the most vulnerable people impacted by the commercial sex industry. However, there is a lot of confusion about the different options…
"I See Me"—A Poem By Senior Survivor Mentor, Tonya Morris
Do you see meDon’t judge me by my hairstyle, the clothes I wear, or the colors I seeIf I identify as he, they, sheDon’t judge the color of my skin, my past I was inI have a degree in faith, change, creativity, I have a degree in “ME”
Not All that Glitters… A Survivor’s Perspective on the Movie “Hustlers”
As I watched the dollar bills float in the air and eventually land on my skin, I felt what I thought was validation. The temporary feeling of finally being good enough…
Thousands More Jeffrey Epsteins Are Still Out There.They operate with impunity, continuing to sexually exploit children.
“What was so painful about the Jeffrey Epstein case is that it wasn’t shocking,” Lisa Goldblatt Grace, co-founder of My Life My Choice, told me. “A wealthy white man leveraged his money, privilege and power to sexually abuse, to rape, young girls.”
Empowering LGBTQ Youth All Year Long
This past June, My Life My Choice staff marched in the Boston Pride parade for the first time. We marched to represent and support LGBTQ youth who are survivors of commercial sexual exploitation. My Life My Choice serves the most vulnerable in our community, including LGBTQ youth—young people who have endured extremely unfair life circumstances, simply because of who they are.
What ISN'T Shocking About The Jeffrey Epstein Case
The latest news is a strong indicator and proof positive of our purpose. It's about time that investigations are leading to indictments intended to be carried out.
Our Growing National Training Team - Prevent Child Abuse New Jersey the First My Life My Choice Training Hub
My Life My Choice serves as a model for communities across the country set on changing not only lives, but the structural inequities that give rise to trafficking and sexual exploitation.
The Sex Trafficking in Our Neighborhoods
You don’t have to take a person’s passport to enslave her. It is not necessary to lure them from China and hide them in massage parlors they can’t leave. It is possible to trap them in plain sight, where most of us don’t see their plight or powerlessness.
Dear Johns — An Open Letter to Sex Buyers
Patriots owner Robert Kraft was recently charged with allegedly buying sex. But we know that the real story here is not about one man. The real story is all of you who think it is acceptable to buy someone. Here is what we want you, the buyers, to know.
A Call to Action for Patriots Nation
The heart-wrenching details emerging about the lives of exploited women may have shocked members of Patriots Nation, but, sadly, were not shocking to us at My Life My Choice who deal with the realities of commercial sexual exploitation every day.
The Wall: A Barrier and Source of Instability
While the partial government shutdown has ended, it’s effects may be long-lasting for the most vulnerable in our communities. The safety net so many relied upon was stripped away creating a feeling of desperation and re-traumatization of going without.
Justice for Cyntoia Brown: A Call to Action for Public Health
By the age of 16, Cyntoia Brown had experienced multiple rapes, physical and mental abuse, run away from home, and was being sold for sex. On August 6, 2004, her life would change forever when she was sold to a 43-year-old perpetrator named Johnny Allen.